How You Introduce Someone Says More About You
- suneel172
- Aug 9
- 2 min read
How You Introduce Someone Says More About You
And why self-introductions need nouns, not adjectives.
Imagine this:
A person walks up and says,
“Hi, I’m an exceptional leader, a brilliant innovator, and an extraordinary entrepreneur.”
You’d probably smile politely. And take a step back.
Because when someone uses adjectives to introduce themselves, it can feel like self-declared greatness.
But when those same adjectives are used by someone else, they sound like a warm endorsement.
The way you introduce others says a lot about your character. But the way you introduce yourself reveals your credibility and confidence.
Self-Introductions: Nouns, Not Noise
When introducing yourself, the most impactful approach is simple:
Use nouns.
“I’m a banker.”
“I’m an entrepreneur.”
“I’m a communication coach.”
“I’m a teacher.”
Why?
Because nouns state facts.
They tell people who you are, without trying to impress.
They give others room to form their own opinion — which, when you live up to your title, is much more powerful than any adjective.
Introducing Others: Use Adjectives Thoughtfully
When introducing someone else, adjectives are not just welcome — they’re encouraged.
“Let me introduce you to an outstanding doctor.”
“She’s a renowned architect with a knack for blending tradition and modernity.”
“He’s a respected leader in the industry.”
Why does this work?
Because you’re not trying to promote yourself. You’re extending credibility to someone else.
And in doing so, you elevate not just the person — but your own grace and generosity.
Why It Feels Odd When People Brag
There’s something psychologically off-putting about people who use adjectives about themselves:
“I’m a brilliant consultant.”
“I’m a very successful entrepreneur.”
“I’m an extremely effective coach.”
Even if it’s true, it feels forced.
Because confidence that’s declared is rarely as powerful as confidence that’s demonstrated.
How to Get It Right
When you introduce yourself:
Stick to nouns
Speak with clarity and calmness
Let your work carry the adjectives
When you introduce others:
Use respectful, relevant adjectives
Highlight what makes them credible
Give them a warm runway
Final Thought
“I am a very successful entrepreneur.” — Sounds like self-promotion. “Meet a very successful entrepreneur.” — Sounds like genuine admiration.
How you introduce others shows generosity. How you introduce yourself reveals authenticity.
So next time you’re on stage, at an event, or on Zoom:
Be the person who states the noun with quiet confidence — and lets the audience supply the adjectives.
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