The Great Debate: Solidity or Flamboyance?

suneel172
Aug 21
2 min read

When it comes to impact—whether in communication, leadership, or life—we often wrestle with a subtle but powerful debate:

Should I rely on flamboyance or on solidity?

Each has its merits.

Each has its demerits.

Flamboyance attracts attention.

Solidity sustains it.

The truth is, both have their place.

Why Flamboyance Matters

Flamboyance is like the sparkle in the shop window—it draws people in. It makes heads turn, creates curiosity, and ensures you are noticed in the first place.

Without it, your solidity may never get the chance to reveal itself.

A startup founder with a bold pitch gets investor meetings.
An entertainer with style captures the spotlight before talent is assessed.
A speaker with energy and drama hooks the audience before content lands.

“Flamboyance is the invitation; solidity is the conversation.”

Why Solidity Matters

Flamboyance may open doors, but solidity keeps them open.

People may be attracted by the dazzle, but they stay for the depth.

A business wins contracts through impressive presentations but retains clients through reliability and delivery.
A politician wins votes with charisma but governs effectively through sound policy and consistency.
A professional earns interviews with a flamboyant résumé but grows a career through solid performance.

“Attention is rented, trust is owned.”

Speaking: A Balancing Act

As a speaker, you need both.

Flamboyance grabs the first 30 seconds.
Solidity sustains the next 30 minutes.

Start with presence, energy, and a powerful hook.

Then let substance, research, and relatable insights build your credibility.

“Your opening should sparkle; your core should shine.”

Everyday Examples of the Duo at Play

Fashion: A striking outfit may turn heads, but timeless style keeps admiration intact.
Sports: A flamboyant shot may win applause, but steady play wins championships.
Relationships: A grand gesture may impress, but consistent care builds trust.
Brands: Viral campaigns may grab eyeballs, but quality products build loyalty.